Last time with Hope unfortunately my boss found out very quickly as I had severe morning sickness and because of the job I was in I was the only person who did that role so when thing's started going wrong after my 12 week scan I had to come clean and admit to the managers of the other two agencies I was working with what was going on and why I may be absent. The female manager spread it round everyone which was so horrible as the other members of staff either avoided me or treated me with complete indifference.
I know I'm going to have more scans and appointments this time around so I will obviously need to tell my boss so I am covered for them. Am wondering if I should just come clean to her as I know I started feeling very ill round about week 5.
The other person I feel I owe it to tell is my SIL. I don't know if anyone here remembers me mentioning on other boards (so I'm sorry if I'm repeating) that we were both due two weeks apart in May 14. But in Nov 2 weeks before our 12 week scan she had a mmc and then in January on the Friday before I was due to go back to work after my TFMR she had an EP. I feel I owe it to her not to find out through someone else but don't know how to go about telling her. Really don't want to upset her as would love if she got a bfp again but she said after the EP she's given up.