Right now I am beyond livid at OH and I don't know if I'm right or not!
He has been asleep literally for 3 days, had to take time off work etc and isn't the most helpful at the best of times. After 3 days of no food in the house and living off takeaways I had to go out to the shop. Left ds1 who is 5 at home with him, woke him up before I went and told him to stay awake for an hour and I'd be back then. He said yeah fine, got up made tea and put the tv on. A sure sign he was awake and "with it".
IV just come back to find him fast asleep in bed and my 5 year old unsupervised! Am I a bad mum and should I have taken him with me, or should I expect an hours child care from his father to save him the trauma of shopping 2 days before Xmas?
He has been asleep literally for 3 days, had to take time off work etc and isn't the most helpful at the best of times. After 3 days of no food in the house and living off takeaways I had to go out to the shop. Left ds1 who is 5 at home with him, woke him up before I went and told him to stay awake for an hour and I'd be back then. He said yeah fine, got up made tea and put the tv on. A sure sign he was awake and "with it".
IV just come back to find him fast asleep in bed and my 5 year old unsupervised! Am I a bad mum and should I have taken him with me, or should I expect an hours child care from his father to save him the trauma of shopping 2 days before Xmas?